Things are “ok”
There is a reason you are together. Sometimes though, couples just get lost in the chaos. You know you love each other, but all the rushing around, the work, the hamster wheel of the schedule – it all creates distance.
Every once in awhile you say “Hey, sometime we need to talk about…” – but you don’t.
We often avoid tough conversations – don’t want to risk making things worse and start an argument. Couples often repeat a negative communication pattern. Disagreements keep going down that same worn out path.
People often begin to think, “Well, that’s just the way relationships are,” resigning themselves to just trying to be ok with it. Maybe at times you wish that things could be different, but then you think, “They’ll probably never change.”
And then both of you settle for how things are.
There is a dream you used to have, maybe you talk about it, but don’t take action. There are goals for the future perhaps, but no commitment to getting there. You’re stuck thinking “someday…”
Life is short – your relationship is precious. Don’t settle for a relationship that’s good, but not great.
Relationship coaching is your catalyst for breaking through to a more fulfilling, fun, harmonious life together.
Get back that Mojo
We all know that feeling. You are together with that special someone. Everything is in ‘flow.’ It’s easy. Just a look, and you know what they are thinking. You can anticipate each other’s needs.
You say the right things. You are on the same page, heading in the right direction. Life is good, and you both can feel it.
Some might call it Chemistry or Connection or Synergy or Mojo. It’s this life force that happens when two people create an energy together that is unique, powerful, and greater than what either could experience by themselves. You felt it early on, that attraction, that pull, that initial “Aha! I like this, this is Good!” It was easy in the beginning…
Sex is important, but it’s way more than that. It’s that commitment that you don’t even have to ask about. It’s that feeling of excitement seeing each other at the end of the day. Being able to feel whatever you are feeling, and it’s ok to share it.
Safety and stability, but also freedom for adventure. Connectedness, but being fine doing your own thing. Taking risks and knowing you’ve got each other’s backs. With Relationship Coaching, you can recreate this. Be good again, but be even better than you were.
Create the Relationship of Your Dreams!
At the beginning of a relationship we talk about the future, dream of where we are going together. Later, we often get to where we are just getting through the week. There might be some thoughts about the future, but we don’t talk about it.
We can talk, but we could say so much more. There are vague ideas of great things ahead, but we never get started. There are things we need from each other, but we’re not quite sure how to ask.
Relationship coaching can help you realize where you want to be together. Start dreaming together again! Get back on track, get stronger and genuinely enjoy your life together.
It’s time to make the two of you together a priority. invest the energy into making this relationship better than ever.